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The Voice Within: Controlling Negative Thoughts and Building a Better Future

Your brain treats them as urgent because historically, missing a threat could cost your life.

By Kris EmersonDecember 1, 2025Season 7, Episode 48 · The Voice Within - Controlling Negative Thoughts and Building a Better Future
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Season 7, Episode 48 · The Voice Within - Controlling Negative Thoughts and Building a Better Future

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What to remember
You have to keep reminding yourself how loved you are and how capable you are and how God is and might be using you over and over again.
Yeah, there are negative things in life that just aren't any fun that you have to do.

The story behind the idea

This is our first real substantive thing I'd like for you to think about and remember.

What stands out

Your brain, in order to protect you, will naturally give more attention to potential threats, fear, criticism, danger, failure, rejection, things that will rock your world. Your brain treats them as urgent because historically, missing a threat could cost your life. Positive things are nice to have, but negative things you must not overlook. So we end up finding them all the time and thinking about them and almost romanticizing negatively how bad it can be.

Why it matters

You have to keep reminding yourself who you are in Christ. You have to keep reminding yourself how loved you are and how capable you are and how God is and might be using you over and over again. At the end here of the episode, I'm going to tell you, I journal every day.

A faithful way forward

You replace I don't belong here with I am God's workmanship and God has placed me here. I can't just look at my situation and think I'm ill-equipped and I don't belong.

Put it into practice

Yeah, there are negative things in life that just aren't any fun that you have to do. Write it down under your frog list and knock it out, but process it as a normal part of a positive day, not a negative element that sinks everything.

Think about it

Take the idea with you.

  1. 01What idea from this study most needs my attention right now?
  2. 02Where does this challenge the way I am currently thinking or living?
  3. 03What is one faithful step I can take this week?
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