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Don't Thank God First: Begin Prayer with Praise

Thanksgiving is good. Making room to praise God for who He is can deepen our gratitude and help us trust Him when life becomes difficult.

By Kris EmersonAugust 31, 2026#442 — Don't Thank God... Yet. Making Your Prayer Life More About God
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#442 — Don't Thank God... Yet. Making Your Prayer Life More About God

Aug 31, 2026

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What to remember
Praise names God's worth; thanksgiving recognizes His gifts.
Jesus' model prayer places God's name and will before our daily needs.
Let worship shape your response when circumstances become difficult.

A good habit can still need room to grow

Most of us thank God when we pray. We thank Him for food, family, forgiveness, and the help we have received. That gratitude is good. But have you noticed how quickly prayer can turn into a list of what we need? Jesus begins the model prayer by directing our attention to God's name, kingdom, and will. Praise helps us see who God is before we talk about everything happening in our own lives.

The title is meant to help us pause, not to give a new rule about which sentence must come first. Try considering God's character before listing His gifts. He is holy before I explain my needs and faithful before I describe my uncertainty. Those truths can give depth to the gratitude that follows. I am speaking to the Lord whose goodness reaches far beyond my latest experience. Giving Him thoughtful attention helps me remember why His gifts are so precious.

Praise and thanksgiving belong together

Thanksgiving turns our attention to what God has given. Praise also helps us think about who He is. We can thank Him for forgiveness and then spend a little time considering His mercy. We can thank Him for daily bread and praise His faithful care. The two belong together. I find it helpful to ask whether my prayer has made room for the Lord Himself. Have I thought about His holiness, wisdom, and love, or moved straight through a list of the things happening to me?

First Thessalonians 5:16–18 calls us to pray and give thanks, and Philippians 4:6 joins our requests with thanksgiving. We should gladly follow those instructions. Beginning with praise is a way to bring more thought to what follows. When I remember God's wisdom, I may hold my requests with a little more humility. When I remember His mercy, my thanks may become more heartfelt. I am learning to appreciate the One I am approaching, and that changes how I speak about His gifts.

Hear creation's praise in Psalm 148

Read Psalm 148 and notice how much of creation is called to praise the Lord. Angels, sun, moon, stars, mountains, trees, animals, rulers, and people of every age belong in the song. The psalm lifts our eyes beyond one person's day. God's glory reaches above earth and heaven. He gave the command by which things were created, and He cares for His people. Take time to see that larger picture. The One who hears your prayer is worthy of praise from all He has made.

Let the psalm help you find something specific to say. You might praise God for the power shown in creation, His authority above every ruler, or His care for those near to Him. Stay with one truth for a moment. You do not need to collect a long list of impressive words. Think about what you are saying and why it is true. Then speak to God with understanding. Scripture can teach us to praise Him in ways that are both simple and full of meaning.

Notice where Jesus begins

When Jesus teaches His disciples to pray in Matthew 6:9–13, He begins with the Father in heaven. He speaks about God's name, kingdom, and will before daily bread, forgiveness, and deliverance. Our needs have a place in the prayer. Jesus also teaches us to see those needs in relation to the Father's purposes. Before asking Him to change the day ahead, I can remember whose day it is and whose will I want to follow. That is a helpful place for my heart to begin.

We should not turn the model prayer into a rule that every prayer must have the same opening or spend a certain amount of time in praise. Scripture includes urgent cries for help. The lesson is still valuable: God's honor deserves our attention. When I ask for His will to be done, I am learning to trust His wisdom even when my preference differs. When I ask for bread, I acknowledge my dependence. When I ask for forgiveness, I remember the mercy I also owe to others.

Let deliverance reveal the Deliverer

Exodus 15 records Israel's song after God delivered them from Egypt. The people remember the rescue, and they also speak about the Lord who rescued them. He is their strength and salvation. His power is majestic, and His reign endures. Their gratitude leads them to praise. We can learn to pray that way too. A blessing gives us reason to say thank you and an opportunity to think more deeply about the goodness of the One who has cared for us.

When you thank God for forgiveness, think about His mercy and the giving of His Son. When you thank Him for daily provision, remember your dependence on His care. When a passage of Scripture gives you needed wisdom, pause over the goodness of a God who has spoken. We do not know every detail of His providence, and we do not need to invent one. We have plenty to praise in what He has clearly revealed about Himself and in the gifts we can gratefully receive.

Carry the song into the thirsty place

The rest of Exodus 15 takes us from a song beside the sea to thirsty people in the wilderness. The people struggle to find drinkable water, and they begin to grumble. Their thirst is real. So is the God who delivered them. It is easy to recognize the gap between their song and their response, but I need to ask about my own. How quickly do I forget what I was praising God for when the next difficult thing enters the day?

Job 1:20–22 shows a man grieving and worshiping under terrible loss. He does not pretend the loss is small. The rest of the book gives us his anguished questions. Yet his first response includes honoring the Lord's name. That helps us see why praise matters before a crisis comes. We are learning that God's worth remains when life hurts. The Lord we thank in a season of abundance is the same Lord to whom we can turn when we need help carrying sorrow.

Make a little more room for God

Choose a passage that reveals God's character and read it before you pray. Stay with one truth long enough to understand it, then speak to Him about it. If you quickly move to thanksgiving, there is no need to criticize yourself. Simply return to what you were considering and give it a little more attention. This is an invitation to know and honor God more deeply. A thoughtful moment can mean more than a long prayer spoken with very little awareness.

You might begin with a sentence such as, 'Father, You are faithful, and Your wisdom is greater than mine.' Think about why you believe that before adding anything else. Then bring a blessing or a concern into the same prayer. How does God's faithfulness affect the way you receive the blessing? How does His wisdom affect the request? The aim is to connect what you know about the Lord with what you are carrying today. Praise becomes useful through the day as those truths return to mind.

Before your next prayer, take a moment to praise God for who He is. His holiness, wisdom, mercy, and faithfulness are true before you name a need or a blessing. Then thank Him and ask for help. I have found that beginning with God changes the way I carry the rest of the prayer into my day. Let praise take its rightful place, and let gratitude rise from a clearer view of the Lord.

Think about it

Take the idea with you.

  1. 01How much of my prayer describes who God is before describing what I want?
  2. 02Which truth from Psalm 148 or Exodus 15 could become part of my praise?
  3. 03Does my view of God's worth change when I do not receive the outcome I requested?
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